Elana Gail Karl (Carpenter), (58) beloved wife, mother, sister, daughter, aunt, cousin,
grandmother and loyal friend to so many, peacefully slipped away from her loved ones
on June 4,2013. She faced her bout with terminal cancer in a manner that left even those
who knew her best stunned by her constant courage and humor. Funeral Services will be held on Saturday, June 8, 2013 at 11:00am in the Bonners Ferry Funeral Home in Bonners Ferry, Idaho with interment following in the Grandview Cemetery.
She was born in Lewiston, Idaho on April 26, 1955. Her family moved to the
Moyie Springs area in 1958, and Elana graduated from BFHS in 1974. Many friends
from her school days remember her infectious giggle and sweet nature, and it is doubtful
she ever considered looking down on anyone who did not drastically deserve it, like the
bullies she disliked.
Two years after she finished high school she moved to Spokane, where she made
her home for 35 years. She enjoyed working and was employed as a bookkeeper,
hairdresser and near lastly as a shift supervisor at the UGM Crisis Shelter for Women and
Children. Her mind was as sharp with numbers and letters as it was with a quick witted
yarn.
Her only child, Sean, was born in 1975 and was the light of her life. They had a
remarkable relationship. One didn't have to speak to the other, they just knew. Sean
married his best friend, Heidi, and their 2 young sons; 4 year old Caleb and 2 year old
Evan, were the shining stars of their proud Grandma's life. Watching them play was ajoy
to her heart. It also occasionally brought a tear to her eye, realizing she would not get to
watch them grow into young men.
At the age of39 Elana devoted her life to Jesus Christ by trusting in him as her
Savior. She was a member of the Hickory Missionary Baptist Church in Sandpoint. Many
things effected how she dealt with this ordeal, Her Faith being one of them.
Elana did not allow her beliefs to dull her appreciation of a good joke, and one of
her favorite things was a simple drive in the country. Being narrow minded would never
have occurred to her, she just appreciated a good laugh and her giggle, once started, was
often impossible to stop. If ever a laugh was infectious, it was hers.
Honesty demands that a little tale from Elana's past be shared at this time. She
had two very good friends in Spokane, a mom and daughter, and the three of them spent
hours together finding amusement in countless ways. Sadly, the mom died. Elana and her
friend sat together at the funeral, and unfortunately some untimely remark by the speaker
set off a small attack of giggles in the twosome. The attack grew uncontrollable, much to
the mortification of most of the crowd. The best thing about it was, the friend and mom in
the casket would have been giggling right along with them, and undoubtedly had a wide
grin on her face as she traveled to her next world.
Any room Elana entered brightened up considerably. Even grumps who liked
nobody else liked her.
Elana and her husband of 16 years, Richard Karl, moved back to Moyie Springs
in 2011, where she worked at the Restorium until her health forced her stay at home.
Though suffering every day, she always had a smile and a joke for visitors, and was
pleased to finally be back where her heart had remained, good old Moyie.
Elana loved her animals, both wild and domestic, especially sweet Annie who
stayed by her side non stop. She had a beautiful view of the woods from her bed and
delighted in watching the deer, birds & other animals graze and pass by.
Elana is survived by her loving husband Richard, who was diligently by her side,
holding her hands, during the bad times and the good; mother Lenora Carpenter of
Bonners Ferry, ID; three brothers, Ken (Joy) of Moyie Springs, ID; Steve (Laurie) of
Colbert, W A; and Nathan (Sylvia Jo) of Spokane, W A; son Sean Nelson (Heidi) of
Spokane, WA; 2 grandsons; two step-grandchildren Josh and Alyson Nelson; five nieces;
four nephews; friends; and relatives by the dozen, both old and new, all now sharing the
pain of this untimely loss of such a special human being.
Elana was preceded in death by father Homer (Shorty) Carpenter.
Family and friends are invited to sign Elana's book at www.bonnersferryfuneralhome.com Arrangements are entrusted to the care of Bonners Ferry Funeral Home.
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